WP 5 | My Faith-Based Journey

Stories Across My Faith Based Journey

I will be sharing about my own journey as a faith-based practice owner. I believe it's important as Christians, that we really remember what we've been through, not only for our own growth, but to help one another.

We know the power of testimony. When we hear someone else's testimony, it reminds us of things within our own life. It gives us the extra encouragement that we personally need.

I remember being in a Bible study where somebody was talking about the Israelites journey in the wilderness. God reminded them to put down stones so they could remember places that they had come from. That's so vital as we move on in our lives. We put those stones down like little memorials of the things that God has done in our life. When I think about practice growth, I think about the different stones along my practice journey. It is so important to remember because you were going to come up against obstacles in the future, and you're going to have to go back and look at that story. The truth is I love my practice, but my practice makes me a better person. And my practice makes me a better Christian. It forces me to look to God. I’m pushed closer towards God, and God does something in me.

God has a Plan

I got my graduate degree at Richmont Graduate University. My husband had gotten a full scholarship to Denver Seminary, so we moved out to Denver, Colorado. I applied for jobs way in advance. Months in advance. I think I applied for 30 to 35 jobs. I think I had two total get back in touch with me. Our rent was due on right away. And I remember if I didn't have a job and have some money by October 1st, we were not going to be able to pay the rent. I was about to go work at the Panera. Yes, with the Panera, with my master's degree. In fact, believe it or not, they were going to give me a second interview.

I had nothing to do every day because we had no money. I had no friends. I had moved to this new place and my highlight every day was just going on a walk. And this one day I just felt in my spirit I felt that I was not supposed to go on a walk. I stayed home and I got a phone call. It was from the psychiatric hospital down the street, and they said, we would love to bring you in for an interview. And I was like, great. They hired me on the spot. I started doing intake. And my first paycheck, October 1st. A way for me to see that God is in control of my work. I had been worried that maybe I wasn't supposed to be a counselor, maybe this isn't really going to work out.

And then when that happened, it was like, wow. Like God had this all lined up and I was the one sitting here worried about it. I ended up working at that hospital for four years while my husband was in school. In fact, when he graduated and he was looking for a job, talk about another moment in our lives that we were kind of discouraged and questioning calling.

God has a way of making the bad things good

After I finished working at that psychiatric hospital, we moved down here to Savannah. And again, I was applying for jobs. And no one was hiring. Savannah is one of those towns that you got to know somebody to get a job. In fact, I even went to the sister facility of the one I had worked at. I knew everything that they needed, and they were hiring for admissions. I already know the system. They were not interested. They didn't call me back. I was like, “Lord, like what is going on here?” I reached out to the other Christian practices in town. They weren't interested. And then if someone from my graduate school reached out to me and said introduced me to another therapist we went to lunch and he asked, “Are you interested in renting together?” And it was amazing.

God has a way of making the bad things good

God Provides

As I think about my practice, I can see how his hand of provision has been there the entire time. Even when I would look at my caseload and go, “Eek!”, like, am I going to be able to do all the things I need to do and pay all the things I need to pay? And then the right clients would call and, and they'd be able to take my full fee and they'd be able to come in when I needed them to come in and, and all the things would fall into.

And so, my practice was going really well for several years. I've never been full-time. I've always been part-time. I have little kids at home and so I was working three, four days a week seeing somewhere between 18 and 22 clients. My phone was just ringing off the hook. I was struggling to get people in. And then it was at that time that I started thinking, “Hmm, maybe, maybe I'll think about starting a group practice.”

Then fear started to set in. And then I was like, “Ooh, I don't, I don't know about that. That seems like a lot of work. That seems scary.” I have never been a boss before. I didn't know what I was doing, and I started putting out these little fleeces, right? Though we know the biblical story, where he puts the fleece out to see if there's going to be dew. So put some fleece out to see if there's going to be water on it or not. And I was doing the same thing, putting those little tests out there.

So, I took that leap. I got some coaching alongside because I wanted support to start my group practice with support. And if you haven't ever started a group practice, talk about a leap of faith. It is scary. In 2018, I hired my first clinician and I started with contractors. I didn't know what I was doing. And then I hired my second clinician. As a group practice owner, talk about challenges, especially with the people you hire and your team and their needs.

One day one of my team members came to my office and said, I need to quit. I had just gotten her full and she was running two groups. I was so proud and happy. I had no idea she wasn’t happy. After talking with her I left and cried my eyes out. Okay. All that to say is I remember questioning it all like what am I doing? Why did I start a group practice? What made me think I could be a boss? But then knowing that God is with me the entire time, and just because somebody's not happy with you does not mean that you did something wrong. We want to take that information and think through it, but it doesn't necessarily mean that they're right.

And so that was a moment where I thought this practice is falling apart. This was a mistake for me to start a group practice, but God has a way of bringing provisions. It was at that moment that I'm crying, and I go back inside that I had an interview already scheduled that day because the practice was growing. And so, I interviewed that, that therapist and she was fantastic. And in fact, she's still with the practice today and she's one of my best therapists. Sometimes something that can seem so awful, God has something so beautiful right around the corner if we just wait for it.

And then Covid Happened

We started running out of space. In this situation kind of took action into my own hands. I started looking for more spaces in the area, even though that just never really felt right. And so I remember pulling up to my office one day and thinking like just this quietness, almost like an inner voice that said, “today’s the day.” And so, I go upstairs and the gentleman that knew the landlord said, “Hey, want to rent the building?”

And so, March 1st, 2020, we moved into the space downstairs. We, in fact, we had just put all the furniture in there. The therapists were so happy, and we had a beautiful place to be able to offer to clients. Maybe two sessions had happened before Covid started. This was a challenging experience with our faith and our practices and moving forward. We all built resiliency and goodness through that.

As with most practices, COVID caused us to really explode and grow, and the need for mental health was high.

Hiring Challenges in 2021

I could not hire. I was struggling to hire. It took nine months of searching to hire somebody. And during the hiring process, it is so important that we listen to God in that process. There’ve been people I've hired hat were not a great fit. She had all the right credentials, but I knew, oh, this isn’t right. But I like to push things. And so, I pushed it anyway when I shouldn't have. And I reached out and tried to offer the job and she ended up turning it down. And I just think that was God's goodness in my life. I had to start the process over and I was so discouraged and exhausted with using our resources of, of the practice trying to hire.

And then another girl came, and she seemed excellent. She had a great reputation in town. And so, I moved her through the process pretty quick cause I really needed to hire, and she signed the offer letter. But even when she signed it, there was something that didn't feel. But I was really trying to fit somebody in because I really needed another therapist. She came back four days after signing the letter and turned the position down. I was again, devastated. Where do I go from here? And. God did something cool.

I'm talking to my husband about how down I am and tells me there's a lady that I teach Sunday school with. Her daughter is a social worker and she just told me her mom was looking to learn more about private practice. I got her phone number and went out for a dinner/interview. We hired her on the spot and she's still with us. A perfect fit.

Wait on God’s Timing

It’s importance of just waiting on God's timing. Waiting on the right person. I'm going to choose to have faith and believe that God has someone for this practice. God has someone to heal these clients, to help these people, and someone for me to bless. There's someone out there that needs a job doing private practice that's ready for a change, and I'm going to trust the process that they will come.  

God has been so generous and so good here, and I believe the same for you. Having a practice is not easy, but you do not have to do it alone.  God will help you along the way, but you do have to stop and give him credit. Look to him for help. This is the very reason that I started doing faith-based practice consulting because I think these things are important and faith's an important part of your business.

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